From the Ashes

I feel like I need to take a minute and delve a little into the ashes.  Sometimes the ashes become flames when outside influences sweep in and stir them around, and I don't want that to happen.

First, to all of you who have come directly to us when you've had questions or wondered about what has been happening in our lives, thank you.  We are willing and fully able to speak for ourselves about what has happened, and we appreciate those of you who have gone straight to the source.  It is obviously a difficult situation, and we are doing our best to protect all involved.

For those who are mad at us or just don't understand, we are sorry you feel that way.  No one else has walked in our shoes--no matter how similar your situation might be, so no one can know what all has happened.  Please try to be respectful in the midst of whatever feelings you have toward us.  We are sorry for the pain it may have caused you from the outside, but try to imagine how much more pain we must feel on the inside.

And for those who have no idea what is going on, please feel free to private message us or speak to us directly (but preferably not in public or in front of our kids).  We aren't hiding out.  But we are moving forward.

By God's grace, we are healing and we appreciate your kindness towards us as the Lord mends our hearts and minds.